A Man’s Weakness – Looking for greener pastures.

Author’s Disclaimer

I apologize in advance if anyone is offended by the way I come across. I think most men think like this and feel this way but are too scared to admit it. Forgive me for my speech, but sometimes I’m just gonna give it to ya raw…

Women

Why are we all so obsessed with women when we were younger? We all might as well have been monkeys in a cage jumping all around whenever a pretty girl passed by.

But when did this behavior start for you? For me? As far back as I can remember, I’ve always felt a need.

When I was 5 years old, there were these sisters that used to live across the street from me. Till the day I die, I’ll never forget them. The Bayas sisters.

I swear there must have been what felt like a dozen of them. They were Puerto Rican and Dominican and ranged in age from 12 – 19 years old. To my 5-year-old brain, they were all Angels from Heaven sent to brighten up my day.

For some reason, when I got older looking back, they all reminded me of Rosie Perez from back in the day and Lisa from Lisa Lisa and Cult Jam. I remember them chasing the kids around the neighborhood wanting to squeeze our cheeks and everyone running.

But not me! lol

I would sit and let them squeeze my cheeks for as long as they wanted. I’d be on their laps loving it. Good ol’ days of playing outside in the summer.

But what is it exactly that all these grown breathtaking women have that we as men can’t live without?

Pussy.

That was the beginning of my journey into the wonderful world of women. I didn’t understand what I was feeling at the time but it felt amazing. Whatever it was.

Seven years later, I had my first sexual encounter. I didn’t know what I was doing but that’s how we all start. I fumbled through until I learned.

Obviously, there was a lot to learn, and we’ll never stop learning.

But for most of us, it turns into the cure all to end all:

• Feel happy? Oh boy 😁 jump in some pussy!
• Feel bad 😔? Jump in some pussy.
• Stressed with bills??? Get you some pussy.
• Feeling confused with your relationship? Jump in another pussy!

There is nothing in this world that pussy couldn’t solve. The problem was still there, but you felt so much better.

The Challenge of High-End Women

Although I should note that dealing with high-end pussy is a stressful situation in itself.

Many people want to have the pussy that belongs to a Bad Bitch. Until they have to spend the maintenance that it takes to keep one.

This particular type of pussy likes to be wined and dined. That in itself is a crazy bill:

• Hair can run $600 a session (which doesn’t include a wash and set every week).
• At least $180 every other week for the mani/pedi (for basic nails; you’ll have to pay more for special designs and stones).
• Don’t forget the cost of waxing to keep it so fresh and so clean, clean!

Yes. Costly. Especially when you both move on.

The Debate

In my youth, there were always debates about which one was better:

• Puerto Rican?
• Dominican?
• Black?
• White?

My experiences led me to believe that the BEST pussy was always NEW pussy! lol

And I lived like that for a long time. Only after decades of this same destructive behavior and losing plenty of good women did I finally learn my lesson.

The Best Woman

After all these years, I finally learned that the absolute BEST pussy in the world will always be — YOUR pussy.

• The one that’s committed to you.
• The one that thinks about you and whether you ate or not.
• The one that’s interested in your well-being and how she can better ease your stress.

This is the woman you need to cultivate, indulge, and splurge upon.

How to Treat Her

Life will always be stressful, but you need to treat this woman with kindness and have lots of patience.

Try and create a deeper connection by:

• Taking her on long drives and road trips to get to know each other better.
• Planning picnics at the park and beach. (So cliche, but they really do work!)
• Engaging in physical activities together to build camaraderie that cannot be faked.
• Taking her on long hikes to challenge you both.

At the top, you can just sit next to each other in quiet devoted silence, enjoying the beautiful scenery. Perfect time to smoke a lil something, TOGETHER.

It is so important to spend quality time with her so she feels safe, secure, and stress-free.

If you do this, your woman will always be accommodating and inviting in the bedroom. Instead of wasting time, money, and effort in looking for a new one, use that same energy to take care of your own.

Why It Matters

The more work and effort you put into taking care of YOURS, the many more years she will give you of happiness, fulfillment, and satisfaction.

Some of us men are so hard-headed that it is only through pain and regret that we learn. And even THEN, some of us never do.

Don’t be that man. Appreciate what you have when you have it, and go all out.

Whatever your needs may be, if you actually take the time to build a connection with yours, you will not be disappointed.

And no matter what happens, you will never regret treating a good woman right.